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Quote from: St. Paul, Romans 12:17 (1611 Bible) link=http://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/1611_Romans-12-19
19 Dearely beloued, auenge not your selues, but rather giue place vnto wrath: for it is written, Uengeance is mine, I will repay, saith the Lord.
2,3. God is that one who keepeth.There is a difference between wrath and determination and vengeance, and self and family protection. Often the Lord uses your actions to "keep" those that He wants kept.
In that same way Jesus did not resist his crucifixion, a Christian (i.e., Christ followers) is not to resist transgression against him or her; instead, they are, as Jesus did, to yield the matter unto the Father to resolve in that way He sees fit (i.e., the right way).