Maybe, some of us that have less feminist and more traditional ways of thinking, would like to extend the opportunity for men to act like gentlemen around us? Not that I am expecting that in reality though.

That's a fair point but it gets me to a grey zone where I don't really know what side to choose. On the one hand I am butthurt because girls abuse their gender privileges a lot to get what they want but on the other hand a honest girl with good intentions definitely deserves good treatment. Since you have proven yourself to be worthy, this paradox is not relevant any more.