OK.... great to hear that it was not me.  
I was getting a complex.
Just what am I to do with all this adrenelin now?

I am able to receive.  Big hurray!!!
But I am not able to send!!!!  

Here is my error:

[17:00:42] ESMTP> EHLO localhost
[17:00:42] ESMTP< 250-ruggedinbox.com
[17:00:42] ESMTP< 250-PIPELINING
[17:00:42] ESMTP< 250-SIZE 104857600
[17:00:42] ESMTP< 250-ETRN
[17:00:42] ESMTP< 250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN
[17:00:42] ESMTP< 250-AUTH=PLAIN LOGIN
[17:00:42] ESMTP< 250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
[17:00:42] ESMTP< 250-8BITMIME
[17:00:42] ESMTP< 250 DSN
[17:00:42] ESMTP> MAIL FROM:<xxxxxx@ruggedinbox.com> SIZE=402
[17:00:42] SMTP< 250 2.1.0 Ok
[17:00:42] SMTP> RCPT TO:<xxxxxx@ruggedinbox.com>
[17:00:42] SMTP< 553 5.7.1 <xxxxxx@ruggedinbox.com>: Sender address rejected: not logged in
** error occurred on SMTP session
*** Error occurred while sending the message:
553 5.7.1 <xxxxxx@ruggedinbox.com>: Sender address rejected: not logged in

Also, I get this warning:

One of your applications (probably an email client) appears to be making a potentially unencrypted and unsafe connection to port 110
Anything sent over this connection could be monitored. Please check your application's configuration and use only encrypted protocols, such as SSL, if possible

So that you know, I understand how big an issue this is, not some little thing.  And it requires much research, making this a big deal.
I appreciate all your efforts.
I really need this email system.  You have no idea how much peace of mind I will have when this issue is resolved.  Not just me but,
a whole bunch of people will be using this in the future.  It is the best system anywhere.  So, be encouraged on the efforts you have put in.
This is a worthwile effort!

Thanks from me!