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I never once got a PM from a mod to warn me that I was doing something wrong...just a ban that says "spam". That is not a good way to keep people following the rules... Communication is important and these mods are silent.
All this would never have happened if the mods would have sent me a PM to explain why my posts where not good.
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Every deleted post is sent as a PM to your Forum Inbox and always state the following:
A reply of yours, quoted below, was deleted by a Bitcoin Forum moderator. Posts are most frequently deleted because they are off-topic, though they can also be deleted for other reasons. In the future, please avoid posting things that need to be deleted. Ban was usually handled in a different time since only a few staff can handle them; but, they're never out of the blue.
Following the rules need You read them before; not, that a Mod or an Admin have to tell you about first!
If a Cop stop you for speeding I guess what you would argue: Excuse me Mr. Police Officer you cannot give me a Ticket for speeding because You have not told me before that I cannot exceed road speed limits. Obviously, You don't know that to have a driving license you have to know road laws & regulations.
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I run my own forum and I know it sucks when members post in the wrong area's and such so I want to follow the bitcointalk rules but I don't know why my posts are soo bad. I understand I made a few posts promoting other posts but that's just good marketing so the most people will see it and I;m sure the promo posts where still in the correct areas.
You don't know why your post were so bad because you obviously
you have never read the rules before posting your spam! If your posts were so good they weren't removed and you were never banned; sadly, this was not the case since you only spammed disregarding forum rules. However, since you claim you own a forum and it sucks when your members are not following the rules try considering why another forum should accept the fact you are asking the freedom to behave like the
pain in the arse you despise.
I hope I can come back soon

I really hope you'll be back only if you respect
the rules of the forum!