when trying to make love
What does that mean? "Trying"?
I gather you're not always successful?
I don't remember what part I said that but what I probably meant was, I would try the whole slow and gentle thing with my girlfriend to be romantic however she wouldn't orgasm as easily with that, even with the slow and then quick thrusts.
So thus, I "tried" "making love" but it would just end up with awesome and exciting rough "hair pulling" and loud sex cause it was more fun. Not to mention many positions. One of the few guys that hates when sex just consists of a girl riding so I always try to do all the work unless the girl specifically asks to ride.
In real life, I don't have the most confidence but the one thing I have is good abilities there, I can last forever and have a ton of stamina and strength. It did suck though with the girlfriend who just cheated on me cause hell I'd give oral all the time and never get it back AND she would want to have sex for only 10-15 mins (cause she finished many times) and wouldn't want to go longer cause she was tired. Hopefully next girl I'm with can handle and want to go a lot longer.
Its only been 3 days and I'm already quite sexually frustrated (sorry for the above explicit details), as bad as the previous girlfriend was during sex, I do miss it.