I want the distribution of wealth in crypto to look like the pie chart of mining pool hashrates.
That would require Bitcoin losing significant market share to altcoins. I don't want that to happen. Most Bitcoin users don't want that to happen. You're an advocate of altcoins, so your interests diverge from that the majority of the members of this community. I suspect that is why you are advocating against a hard fork and for a permanent 1 MB restriction that would hamper Bitcoin's adoption.
you fail to realize: this hardfork, secret island meetings, gavins behaviour, the low priority consensus actually seems to have, the inaccessibility that Gavincoin will have, the behaviour of the pro-forkers aswell as many, many other things is
exactly what drives people out of bitcoin and into altcoins.
(not that i would think it's a bad thing, i think it's healthy)
Alts gaining marketshare is healthy for all of the ecosystem, it improves decentralisation and developement.
Bitcoin bagholders who fear this are people who miss out on the opportunity to invest in altchains and make profits there.
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