Well I can't comment on whether you are or not but I tend to trust BadBear's judgement on these sort of matters.
I would do the same as you do I will trust he's judgement a 99% of the times. But here he's wrong calling me a scammer with no proof showed to me or a chance to prove he's wrong. It doesn't matter anyway. I just want to run out of here.
Is it a coincidence the number of situations involving scams and scam accusations toward you?