Do you ask other people for help with other things you do? What to have to eat? Whether to go out or not? Crossing the road? Cars coming what should you do? Cross? Wait? Curl up in a ball and cry? You need to make your own mind up on these things as anybody elses opinion is just biased based on speculation and their usually misinformed opinion. Sometimes you just need to take the plunge but only you can decide whether the time is right.