Can someone link me to these rules? I have no idea what you are talking about. Last time I checked there were no rules on this site lol. Just don't scam and don't spam. Also ban evasion is a rule as well but everyone and their grandma has an alt account these days.
here is a unofficial list of the official rules.
The OP appears to be upset about his referral spam being deleted.
We aren't going to allow referal spam, even with 100 million votes for yes, this isn't one of those on the fence, questionable, lets hear from the community to decide sort of situations. Its a little bit irritating that I went through the time to fully explain to you, yet you felt the need to make essentially a spam thread, if this wasn't in meta it would be removed as spam. I'm sort of seeing a theme here though, perhaps you should aquaint yourself with what spam really means.
In theory if he made a strong enough argument then the rule would be changed. The administration is fair that way, if a strong argument is made for a change and such change is not going to open the forum up for any potential legal repercussions then changes will be made. The thing is that there is really no realistic argument to allow for referral spam