Also I think that you missed the part that hitting the hardware limits would be spotted very soon and we can make the necessary changes to not be a real problem anymore. If the network can't handle big blocks then we can create smaller blocks. It is not mandatory that we create huge blocks all the time.
Lol, wtf is this brain damaged logic where "it's ok to deliberately make things weak and broken, because as soon as it becomes a problem, we can repair it" ?
No reading comprehension skill on your side. I said that it is ok to deliberately try new things which will not become a problem since we can spot it long before it's an actual problem and since we can always lower the block size.
but my problem with the current proposal is that i think we need an incentive for miners to make smaller blocks.
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i want that because i think we need a fee based market...
So you are trying to enforce your views on the miners instead of letting them decide.