Hi 4emily,
I just tested a fresh win 7 install, it seems to work like this:
First of all: go to your click Organize (upper left on a file explorer), click "Folder and search options", then:
-Check Show Hidden Folders
-Uncheck "Hide extensions for known file types"
click Apply/Ok
Dl the Opal-Qt, you did
Install the Wallet, and... let it crash
go to C:\Users\Yourname\Appdata\Roaming\Opalcoin
Save your wallet.dat in another folder, erase
all the files and folder in Opalcoin,
Then create a new opalcoin.txt with the notepad (or better with notepad++)
copy paste these addnodes in it:
addnode=46.165.209.144
addnode=54.64.155.117
addnode=79.32.104.81
addnode=192.241.222.102
addnode=173.199.124.185
addnode=65.30.37.95
do not add other argument.
save the file as:
opalcoin.conf
Beware ! when i did that, i saw an:
opalcoin.conf file but, as i did not uncheck the "Hide Known file extension" the file's real name was:
opalcoin.conf.txt (.txt hidden)
You will be warmed "if you change the file extension, the file should be non-readable" or something like that, ignore it, We need a simple
opalcoin.conf the opalcoin.conf file must change from a white and blue stripes .txt icon, to a white .conf icon.
Once you only have this opalcoin.conf, in C:\Users\Yourname\Appdata\Roaming\opalcoin
Restart your wallet... and tell me

I followed the steps you outlined except as regards the conf file which in my notepad program can only be saved as a txt file, so having dragged/dropped it into my roaming folder I renamed it in there by simply deleting the .txt suffix
Then, with the only file in the roaming folder being the renamed opalcoin.conf file I started the wallet which synced for far longer than on previous attempts and with a lot more connections (26 at the end) and, getting as far as '175175 blocks remaining' before the dreaded M/soft Visual C++ Runtime Library message appeared and the wallet crashed.
I'll try again later.