I don't see a stakecoin directory in the stakecoin appdata. I also am still trying to figure out how to change the text to a conf file even if I figure out where to put this..

Would it be easier for me to just do what cinnicoin said earlier "you can add the nodes manually in the wallet by opening help, clicking on debug window, then click on console, and put this one by one:
addnode add
replace with 198.105.125.118 for example, do it for each one clicking enter after each one."

If I do this does it matter if I included the < >  arrows around the node or not. In the above example he didn't include them.

I am so sick of dealing with this crap but I do appreciate the people that have been trying to offer me some help. A video showing step by step instructions on how to do this would be nice.