If i was meeting some one to buy bitcoins with cash and they were to load the cheque, if so how would i know the coins were succsesfully loaded or would it be purley be down to trust and best not used for this kind of transaction?
Well, you can verify the funds are in the cheque by checking the address. The blockchain is public, and you can look at the address on the cheque at any time.
Thanks for all this i am starting to get my head round the simple things..I did read the manual but it didnt make much sense

You have really helped..thanks again for your time.
If i ever get some bitcoin i would love to support your project, wishing you the best of success.