At least you realize the question is a very subjective one, and because of that, you're going to get all kinds of different answers.

You do have things a bit askew.  Generally, the larger the pool, the smaller your reward per block.  In simplistic terms, let's assume I've got 2 pools. Pool 1 solves a block every hour.  Pool 2 solves a block every 24 hours.  All things being equal, this means that pool 1 has 24 times the hashing power of pool 2.  Hence, your contribution on pool 1 is worth 1/24 of what it is on pool 2.  So, sure you'll see 24 blocks solved by pool 1 during the day and it all looks nice, but you're only getting small payments.  When pool 2 solves that block after 24 hours, you get a larger payment (24 times larger than each payment you get on pool 1).  However, as I stated, all things being equal at the end of the day, you've received the same BTC from each pool.