I still haven't received any bitcoins ($495) and you where online, if you don't respond within the next 12 hours, I'll have to contact payeer and contact my bank for a charge back, don't waste my time.
If I was you ill do the charge back couse what he did to me says a lot of him.
The only reason I haven't gotten a chargeback yet is because I ordered from him before and it did worked out. He does need to take his ass out of his head and send the bitcoins, if he's having issues in his personal life, that would be his problem and not mine.
That's a decent jump between 1st and 2nd trades - i hope you get the coins you paid for.
Has he given you a reason for why it is taken to long? Quote from his site "On TOXCOIN all exchange orders are processed nearly instant."