I undertand. We(in general) both may not be able to convince each other.
Yes, a man can have a maximum of four wives. There are strict rules if one man marry more than one wife.
I will give you a simple answer for that. Milk four types of animals, say goat, cow, camel and donkey. Pour them in a pot/bucket/flask and mix them. Can you now identify which is from which? It is the same with having babies. If you have four husbands, it won't be easy to who is child's father? But this is not the case for a man.
What?
How is that related to inequality in Islam where a man is allowed to have four wives at one time and woman are not?
OMG so you meant if a women had four husband it won't be easy to tell who was the father of the child?? That's your argument for the in-equality?? This is absurd.
(Oh and btw there is a thing called DNA test for that.)
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As you have read Quran twice you should know that Polygamy is allowed on the principle that you treat your spouses equally. Quran says "If you can't treat them equally marry only one".
Now let us imagine a situation that a girl marriages multiple husband.
Suppose HK is a girl that marries four males A, B, C and D.
Now she has to treat all of them equally. Now keep this in mind that Islam strictly prohibits extramarital relationships and homos.
Now HK got to treat them equally. They all want to have their babies. They'll have to have babies with you as they are married with you.
You can't have all their babies at the same time. There it goes you can't treat them equally. If you decide to have baby with one others will have to wait wait for their turn.
Let's say they decide to do this and wait for their respective turns.
"A" conceives you first. Then its B's turn.
Now you'll have two choices to make it work while you are trying to conceive with B:
1. First one is simple Other 3 use condom while they do you and only B does it without condom.
Since condoms doesn't work all the time. Its possible that A breaks it while doing you so again its his baby and other 3's baby delayed by another year. (Abortions are strictly disallowed is Islam).
Again where the fuck is equality?
2. Second choice is other three wait while you are trying to conceive with B and don't do you during this time. But you know it can take days and sometimes months to get pregnant.
What will the other three do while you are trying? Suck their dicks?
Since they can't have extra marital relationships neither homo what is the purpose of marriage if they have to wait months to get sex.
^^^ That's why polygamy doesn't work for women and its not allowed in Islam. Islam totally makes sense.
I hope you understand.
http://thebot.net/threads/a-non-muslim-on-a-islamic-country.304541/page-22#post-3272988Now let us imagine a situation that a girl marriages multiple husband.
Suppose HK is a girl that marries four males A, B, C and D.
Now she has to treat all of them equally. Now keep this in mind that Islam strictly prohibits extramarital relationships and homos.
Now HK got to treat them equally. They all want to have their babies. They'll have to have babies with you as they are married with you.
You can't have all their babies at the same time. There it goes you can't treat them equally. If you decide to have baby with one others will have to wait wait for their turn.
Let's say they decide to do this and wait for their respective turns.
"A" conceives you first. Then its B's turn.
Now you'll have two choices to make it work while you are trying to conceive with B:
1. First one is simple Other 3 use condom while they do you and only B does it without condom.
Since condoms doesn't work all the time. Its possible that A breaks it while doing you so again its his baby and other 3's baby delayed by another year. (Abortions are strictly disallowed is Islam).
Again where the fuck is equality?
2. Second choice is other three wait while you are trying to conceive with B and don't do you during this time. But you know it can take days and sometimes months to get pregnant.
What will the other three do while you are trying? Suck their dicks?
Since they can't have extra marital relationships neither homo what is the purpose of marriage if they have to wait months to get sex.
^^^ That's why polygamy doesn't work for women and its not allowed in Islam. Islam totally makes sense.
I hope you understand.
All this doesn't proves anything.
The women and men who are practicing Islam, their right should be the same.
If a woman is married to 4 husbands, then she will choose who she wants to fuck/suck and make kids with.
You keep saying it makes sense but it doesn't. But you're blinded by your faith, so you can't see pass it.
And about AISHA, doesn't matter if you say she was matured or she was happy. She was a kid and it was wrong. If you had a daughter, would allow her to get married at the age of 9 and let her be happy with an old guy?