now i know the problem...
my wallet.dat have a peoblem
i change with another backup
now sync ...
tq guys
besides doing backups...
I always dump all private keys of all wallets and store them offline
just in case I end up with a corrupt wallet and unwilling to work backups
it can get tricky
btw, I am not so sure I am not forked
can't see my txid on
http://cryptoplorer.com:3011/unless there is another block explorer
damn, what a mess!