Hi. Serious question. I'm new to this forums and new to a few coins I'm looking into, but not new to bitcoin. Any time I make posts or comments, someone always has something really pessimistic or rude or judgmental to say. Just doesn't seem friendly to new people or those who think outside the box. How come? 
I see scams/dishonesty everywhere. I don't inherently trust people. Some may say that is an issue to work on, but I rarely get scammed.