lets take it as a hypothetical then

im interested on your take on it
to me that you would go that far with minimal leg work & no concrete proof in your hands just seems wrong. specially if your plan is to squish it by prolonging it
This will probably get the anti-lawyer folks up in arms, but here it goes:
A lawyer's primary duty is to his or her client, not the public and certainly not a potential defendant. Except for certain limited instances, a lawyer is not required to fact-check a client to ensure that they are on the up and up.
The exceptions to that are: (1) when a lawsuit is filed, because courts do not want to waste their time dealing with half baked unsupportable claims, a lawyer must conduct a reasonable investigation to confirm facts and law, (2) a lawyer cannot provide advise or assistance to
knowlingly aid a client in fraud or the commission of a crime (with apologies to Saul), (3) a lawyer must be honest and civil in deals with third parties (a lawyer could not lie in a C&D; for example, could not say "I have reviewed the Amazon agreement" etc.)
There are a few other very limited exceptions but those are the big ones. That is **only** the ethical duty, however, not whether its a good idea to proceed to a C&D on the word of your client alone.
As far as whether it was a good idea for BM to proceed to a C&D without conducting an investigation, that is a different question as I said above. It is **not** a good idea for three reasons at least.
First, it does a disservice to the client IMHO. When the bluff is called, the client (and law firm) lose a lot of credibility when they fail to follow through with a lawsuit. Clients frequently ask me to send C&Ds to try to bully smaller companies, and I always say the same thing: I will only send a C&D if you are able to provide a sufficient retainer to pay my fees throughout a lawsuit, and you are ready, willing and able to initiate a lawsuit if there is no compliance by the deadline. No bluffs, they are bad for the client's and the firm's reputation.
Second, sending a C&D without an investigation for any kind of internet activity risks a major backlash (as happened here). It is a pretty common defense to simply post the C&D for the world to see, and let the public response do its job. Absent a real wrong, most people hate it when lawyers send C&Ds (especially to journalists or web sites) .. doing so almost ALWAYS backfires badly, and I personally have dissuaded several clients from making this mistake.
Third, for the reasons above, if I send a C&D client I need to be ready to follow through with the lawsuit. Which means, I won't send a C&D without first making sure I can sign my name to a lawsuit.. which in turn means I have to conduct an investigation anyway because filing a lawsuit requires such. But that is just my practice (and the practice of most top lawyers I know), not an ethical requirement.