Q: Is it better for a child to be born or to be loved?
Wrong choice.
It's better to born a child and love him.
WRONG you don't define choices, the mothers do. furthermore if she doesn't want to love it (as unborn and undefinied), is it torture to be carried by someone who doesn't want you?
but I 100% agree with you second line, however life ain't made of unicorn with tattooed butterfly on the ass for those not getting fdn foc...
WRONG I don't even agree, it's better for both partners to love each others, and from this love a child is born. The rest is unforeseeable... so pray for the best, prepare for the worst, and enjoy what you have, still.