It finally synced up sometime last night, the shares moved from stake back to available.
I have run some other staking wallets and never experienced a 24+hr funds delay "stuck in stake" it seemed like it took 24hrs to get 20 confirmations (havent checked yet) on the mined"staked" coins which in turn released the available balance back to my wallet. I recently ran ecash wallet and it staked like every minute or so and i dont recall ever seeing my available staking balance Locked up until a stake amount confirmed X transactions. The problem with that is what if i really need to sell the coins because of a market spike, or worse case scenario the coin fails and i need to panic sell, either way i would be unable to because these coins are "stuck in stake"   

I will download the new wallet and try again.

Dev please take note of this scenario because its a major problem having coins tied up very risky for loss of profit or total loss of value if they cannot be confirmed/moved quickly. The syncing issues also cause this scenario