FWIW, my home node is / has been fully synced for some time so it's just normal ins and outs.

Are there any flags I can use in the config file to say be a dick and not be someones seed for their node and just process normal usage data for trans etc, keeping in mind commands usable on 0.10.0 that may not be available to previous versions.

Oh and as for the VPS, I did do that once and ran out of disk which is why I went to the home node idea where all I have to do is add disk to the laptop.

As for my cap, apparently I'm one of the less than 3% affected by it lol.