All links will update over the course of the day as different websites are maintained by different people i.e. aboutshadow is by a community member etc...
The links posted are official ...
In reference to "Tried to update, didn't go" ... we need more information to provide assistance than that

EDIT : Please remember as part of the upgrade to 1.3.2.2 your wallet will upgrade core components and also run a block chain reindex. This can take anywhere from 5mins to 30mins depending on the speed of your computer.
EDIT :
Release Notes still apply if your upgrading from versions prior to 1.3.2.x
The TXDB version has been raised to 70510.
On first boot the nodes will wipe any database before 70509 and initialise
a reindex, which will reload the TXDB from the stored blockchain.
For Databases of verson 70509 an migration will run, significantly faster
than a reindex. All existing nodes should be on txdb version 70509.
Thin nodes don't store the blockchain and will need to redownload.
Note: Reindexing the chain could cause your failed stake transactions to be
detected as occuring during the reindex, and displayed at the top of the
transaction list. They can be removed by running clearwallettransactions
followed by reloadanondata.