Still no reference, and I am being ignored as of now. No one is confirming weather payment has been sent. Its starting to dawn on me, that I have been scammed.
Considering legal action and some type of scambook report (alongside as many submissions to search engines and various forums/sites to index as many XMLgold=Scam search engine search results)  and finally a formal request by Domain registras to have their website(s) taken offline.
I dont think they clearly understand the doors they have opened. This is unacceptable.