From about Utilitycoin menu i can read: v1.0.1.2: Experimental
Anyway it's the wallet downloaded from the first page of this thread, windows version.
In this case should i use connect= or addnode= ?
I suggest to use addnode.
Connect will only connect to the specified node, Addnode will add the node to the internal list of nodes and will allow the wallet to connect to other nodes.
Ruleland, which version is the latest one and where do we download it from? Also which conf file do we use? The v0.1.1.2 does not sync.