You are jumping to the wrong conclusions over and over again, at least now you are not making such grand leaps any more.
I know you will eventually come to the truth, my hope is that you do the right thing and clean up the trail of mess you are creating.
So far 50% of people think you are a charity! Even if it were half that, wouldn't an honest person think maybe he/she was
wrong?
Change begins at home, friend. Re-evaluate your business name and if you are going to entrust yourself as the final say for donations, make yourself publicly known. None of this anonymous coward crap - anonymous just means you intend to scam. I can't help you until you help yourself.