You are willing to send first to a "new" trader who is red with 'trade with caution' that seems really clever thing to do   Please be advised both you and the OP that there are many scammers that would love to steal your funds/btc so please be safe and just use escrow, is it really that hard to get used to and such a delay waiting a few extra minutes? I guess some people will never learn and always try pull a fast one then cry when they lose their funds, please don't make me say I told you so..