You don't understand how POS works. Difficulty doesn't say anything about how hard it is to stake a block. It only says how hard it is to find kernel. But that's just one part of generating stake.
I have been using cryptos with and without PoS for about 3 years now. Just because this account is a newbie account doesn't mean I am a newbie crypto user. I know how PoS works and I KNOW there is something wrong either with my client or the network but everyone just wants to be in denial rather than actually attempt to help or try to fix the problem.