I messaged him. He wants you to send the bitcoins first, with no escrow.
If you saying about DebitMe you right, he is trusted user you are newbie, that means you go first.¨Edit: there is many trusted users in the forum that i would have no problems in sending first, just be carefull.
I think he is talking about OP, and OP wanting the person to send first. I have not received any PM's today.
Thank you for your kind words though
Yes I was talking about the OP. He just sent his btc address and told me to send first.