You guys are honestly a bunch of assholes to put it lightly. You automatically accuse every newb of scamming,
yet when PayPal is brought up (being one of the worst for reversibility), everyone seems to be fine with it. Quickpay is not reversible once it's picked up, for the record. I wouldn't expect anyone to send BTC until it actually completes.
Where did you get this "nugget"? I can point you to many threads where the opposite is being said.