you are taking it so seriously.. just tell us if you feel fat or not

No. You might be taking this too lightly. I've seen people get called fat (especially women) in my vicinity, even when it isn't meant as a insult, but they weren't fat. There is a difference what is unhealthy fat and what society dictates as fat. There is definitely a need for being serious here, because a lot of people get hurt and can not handle being called fat.
Besides, I've already answered the thread.