Speaking of gold: Gold has been demonetized (ie, there are no gold coins in circulation as national currencies), so it's not like millions of gold transactions are happening every day. In terms of transactions per second, it's not very unlike Bitcoin. Yet, the ~5.8bn ounces / ~180 kilotons of gold have a marketcap of 6.5 trillion USD.
You make the case about as well as it can be made. But there's a few problems. The raw amount of transactions in gold is
necessarily small. After all, to really transact in metals at a distance you have to pack a lump of metal in some packaging and
mail it. Bitcoin is greatly advantaged in this respect. But it is not advantaged with the blessing of the periodic table, people laugh at altcoins, but they really
are the competition. They do what bitcoin does, just with less liquidity. To just wave your hands and say "Network Effect" is not sufficient to equate it with a rare, dense, non-corrosive, and shiny when polished metal.