i wanted escrow, he declined and wanted to send first!
He can confirm!
My account was in good standing, i didnt taked the money from it and i dont have my account anymore.
This is what's confusing me right now. Rustynomad did not charge back or file a dispute. In fact, the transaction is still marked as completed. Furthermore, his account is verified and yours isn't.
So, it shouldn't have been a problem in/with the transaction unless I'm missing something.