And ... we all have to learn our own lessons for ourselves -- we learn from our mistakes and that's how we become better people. That's what it's called to be a man.

You wouldn't understand if everything you believe comes from your imam or your priest - some old man who pretends he knows more than you. You would never learn anything about life if you did that.

-Son of a rotten gambler (my favorite version).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EIzX84po4LU