right lets talk about love in religion
a jew lets there son or daughter die because there god says nature must take its cause its gods will

rather than let a doctor operate on there kids
a muslim will stone his own daughter to death if they commit adultery
plus they will do all sorts of horrible things to there own daughters if they do not comply ..
a christian will disown there own child and say horrible things to there own child if they are gay they even say there going to hell with hatred for there own children
so being an atheist means i cannot love..

religious freaks love a book more than there own family
AND GOD SAID NO HE NEVER ITS ALL IN YOUR MIND

Finally, you are getting down to things basic.
Your questions or points don't really have an answer. People are not endowed with clear answers in these areas. The closest we can come, is to apply religious writing expressed actions to those that we, the people, do.
The atheism religion is at a disadvantage in this regard. Atheism has no clear written directives for morals, and no written examples, except, of course, when the atheist accepts parts of God-religions.
