@Jakez: I would not recommend you to send the money first to this user, just have a look at his trust rating.
If he doesn't accept escrow, don't do the trade - simple as that. He can quickly withdraw the Skrillfunds and then you've got nothing and Skrill often doesn't refund money which is not existing in their system anymore.
Yours,
DC
he is not sending 1st
we are doing escrow
please read carefully and than reply to post