Can you give me an example of an actually damaging situation coming for the use of SPV?
Sorry, I've never had any significant reason to concern myself with such things. (If I use a SPV client, it's for pocket change.)
Off the top of my head, the recent (a few months back) multi-block fork during which some SPV clients were on the "wrong" chain comes to mind. I certainly wouldn't want my client telling me something which later turns out to be different. While the situation may not turn out to be directly damaging as far as a user's funds go, confusion itself can certainly lead to various problems resulting in actual damage.