The reason the market consensus tolerates a limit to the left of Q*...
You have your hypothesis and I have mine. We will only be able to determine which is correct with the benefit of hindsight. Like I said upthread, the nice thing is that these hypotheses are at least partly testable. If your theory is correct (that the market will tolerate a limit to the left of Q*) then that would have the affect of pushing aggregate fees above the aggregate cost of production for block space. If the total miner fees collected over a six month period in the future were, for example, twice the total block rewards lost due to orphaning, then I think I would agree that your theory is correct.
Time will tell.