Have you given up saying Christianity is based on fear?
Yes. BADecker has just confirmed Christainity is fear based. There is no need for me to continue pressing this fact. He done all the hard work for me. 
He just just threaten me with the good old "believe or else" sketch.
You better learn about God and fear Him a bit. Even though He offers forgiveness, there will come a time when He will withdraw the offer from all those who won't accept it. And His power is way beyond the power of a big man who has a gun out of its holster. Don't tick God off if you know what's good for you.
Are you afraid? No? Then Christianity is not based on fear.
He may have been trying to get you to fear in order to be saved. But that's him personally, and since you don't believe, you won't fear.
If you do believe, you won't be afraid either, because you're already saved.