It absolutely depends what you are mining with. Slower hardware will get more stale shares.
I have a 4650 that mines at about 22MH/s, and it gets 7% stale shares. But my 5850 gets 0.36% stale shares. Regardless, if you're using deepbit, he pays you for those stales anyway.
BTC Guild Also pays for stales if you donate 2.5% or higher.