Also if i add a Company VAT number with my friends company. Would they Discard the VAT totally? or just bill the company? . Heard different things from different sources
If they're like the UK you'd pay out the VAT and then claim it back in your next return. That is if you actually have the right to be using your friends VAT number, which it doesn't sound like you do.
One more thing; looked at one alternative site that ships within the EU
Assume any reseller to be generally nefarious, there aren't significant reseller margins provided by Bitmain and so these people can generally only make money off charging you more. And as history has taut us, warranties are sketchy at best through a reseller.