jump out of your bubble and see who and what is really damaging the community 
The premise that thermos is in a "bubble" is fallacious because it is ad hominem. Let's be rational and communicate in good faith, instead of arguing about who is or isn't in a bubble.
Bitcoin, inclusive of its community, is antifragile.
We REQUIRE adversity such as the attempted Gavinista governance coup and attempted hostile XT fork to grow stronger.
When you whine about "really damaging the community" what jumps out at me is your gratuitous use of the utterly unnecessary term "really" to modify "damaging."
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Really damaging?" As opposed to what, fake damaging or trivially damaging?

Such linguistic cues betray the fact you know your argument is very weak, so you (consciously or not) puff up your rhetoric with feeble attempts at impact exaggeration.