So any idea why my wallet balance went from 55+ MFLAP to 0.00013555709161 MFLAP.
All the transactions that add up to the 55+ show up in the ledger

to get your balance of your wallet open your wallet. dont rely on block explorers to tell you your balance. just open your wallet and see it.
also for staking. total balance - staking balance = available balance
if the balance is displaying wrong, add rescan=1 to your flappycoin.conf file and restart your wallet
be sure to remove rescan=1 after the wallet starts up again though because if you keep it then it will rescan every time the wallet opens