no i just want my money back i live in a very pore country that is alot of money to me
If 25 is a lot of money to you, you are in the wrong place.
Period.
He got his coins back long ago and his arguments are stupid. Without escrow he would have lost everything, he already received 2 times of the amount back before from me, where he could prove that it is his, and he made a ruccus so that i believe it was only to provide pressure. It's unfortunate that good behaviour went down on the forum. Probably because some people really gave in then and do what the other demands.
At the end it really is not that hard. Simply send only from addresses you control so that you can proof you sent it.