the first thing that comes to my mind when i hear gambling is "lose", i have no clue why but i just think about losing whenever i hear about gambling.
That is very true. Why you get lose in your mind because so for what ever your see or read about gambling is only loser or bad stories about gamblers family that't that first thing you will get in your mind when you hear the word gambling means "loser". We also do not have a many winners in gambling ever one will try of winning but most of them will fail at the end in gambling.