What SebastianJu describes does not sound constructive to me, thats why I was wondering whether it actually happens that often or they just feel like it does.
I understand. However it is pretty obvious that he is not aware of just how much referral spam is being deleted daily. People who report often like you are more aware of this. Also there is always going to be a difference between referral left by newbies and older members due to the fact that a lot more people are watching newbies and can delete their posts.
I don't know it of course. Though i was wondering what was going on with that poster. One refspamthread deleted, the other not. And then the strange thing with my deleted post where i pointed out that there is another refspamthread from that user. Guess finally i have a possible explaination for both things. My post was deleted because grue wanted to merge two posts of mine but copied wrongly. And the second thread was not deleted because a mod thought it should stay when the reflinks are gone.