I agree fully with you. Now, ask yourself, why is government the problem? Why are they not held in check? What is allowing them to act in this anti-social manner?

Taxes. The fact that they are funded by force, and not voluntarily, allows them to get away with these things. Would you voluntarily give your money to an organization that was going to use it to kill people? Would you not, instead, fund an organization which would use that money to feed orphans?

And if you say you would not fund an orphan-feeding organization voluntarily, the government is not the problem, you are.