I transferred 0.17... Bitcoins with a normal miners fee to bitpay.com as part of an online purchase.
the transfer took place on the 22.11 however the transfer is still not confirmed and there is no record of the transaction on the blockchain.
If you don't mind posting your transaction id or your bitcoin address, please do that, others can't help you without knowing more information. My only explanation for your situation is your wallet did not broadcast your transaction and it's still sitting and waiting. Which wallet are you using?