Before we start this discussion, I would like to point out that this is NOT a discussion about whether you think gay/straight marriages should be allowed or not.

This is a discussion about marriage itself, regardless of genders.

My opinion has always been along the lines of:

Why do I need to legally bind myself (at least that's how it functions in the USA) to someone in order to show my love?  I feel like I should be able to show love to someone just by being a part of their life.  Every relationship is an opportunity to learn something new.  It shouldn't need to involve the law.  I understand there are benefits, such as tax reductions among other things, but I am mostly talking about the show of affection.

Have you ever been married?  Ever been through a divorce?  What's it like?  How does it make you feel?  What are the advantages and disadvantages?  Is it worth it?

Discuss.