The community should go with the fork that both BTER and Cryptopia hopefully are both on. Default to the exchanges, and always addnode the exchanges in your wallet.
That is the way I'm leaning - keep the exchanges and the pools happy, plus the fork the explorer is on isn't moving at all.
btw I transfered 20 btb to Bter but it never showed - so they might not be on the same fork as cryptopia and ispace.